W04 Reflection — Measuring a Life That Actually Matters
W04 Reflection — Measuring a Life That Actually Matters This week’s materials reframed “success” from a scoreboard to a compass. Clayton Christensen’s question—how will you measure your life?—landed hardest on two ideas: resource allocation and the “marginal-cost” mistake. I recognized myself in his warning that high achievers unconsciously invest time where feedback is fast (work) and underinvest where payoffs are slow (family, character). I also felt called out by “just this once” thinking; compromise is rarely a one-time event—habits calcify around it. Tom Kelley’s retelling of Jim Collins’ three circles (what I’m good at, what I’m born to do, what people will pay for) added a practical lens. I’ve been competent in many things, but “born to do” shows up when I’m designing learning experiences, building with founders, and serving families. The fourth box— who I do it with—matters as much as the circles. I’d rather build slower with trustworthy people than sprint with misalig...